{"id":65,"date":"2021-12-17T11:07:00","date_gmt":"2021-12-17T17:07:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/homestead.askmattshaw\/?p=65"},"modified":"2025-12-19T10:53:53","modified_gmt":"2025-12-19T16:53:53","slug":"what-are-my-options-if-my-ex-is-not-obeying-our-parenting-plan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shawsanders.com\/wordpress\/what-are-my-options-if-my-ex-is-not-obeying-our-parenting-plan\/","title":{"rendered":"What Are My Options if My Ex Is Not Obeying Our Parenting Plan?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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In Illinois, parents who divorce must create a \u201cparenting plan\u201d that describes each parent\u2019s rights and responsibilities. If the parents cannot reach an agreement about the provisions in the parenting plan, the court will hear arguments from both sides and then issue a parenting plan based on what the court thinks is in the child\u2019s best interests. If your ex is not following your parenting plan, you may be frustrated and annoyed. You may wonder what you can do to make your spouse comply with the terms set forth in the plan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do the Other Parent\u2019s Actions Constitute a Violation of the Parenting Plan?<\/strong> <\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Divorced couples who share custody of children have the unenviable responsibility of remaining in each other\u2019s lives for the sake of their children. Your ex may forget about responsibilities, drop off children late, or make other mistakes that lead to unnecessary frustrations in your life. While this can certainly be annoying, not every mistake is considered a violation of the parenting plan. Recently, COVID-19 lockdowns have caused many parents to be unable to carry out some of the responsibilities contained in their parenting agreement. If a parent makes an honest mistake regarding the parenting time schedule or unintentionally disobeys the parenting plan, the best way to deal with the situation may be to talk with him or her about potential solutions. You may consider requesting a modification to your parenting plan and changing the plan so that works better for your unique situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n


Holding a Parent in Contempt of Court for Willful Noncompliance of a Parenting Plan<\/strong> <\/h4>\n\n\n\n

If your child\u2019s other parent is intentionally disobeying the parenting plan, you may need to take more extreme legal action to correct the problem. Parenting plans are legally binding court orders. A parent may be held in contempt of court for violating a parenting plan. If you have already discussed the problem with your ex and he or she refuses to comply, you may need to file a motion for contempt or a “Parenting Time Abuse” petition. Make sure to keep a detailed record of all of your ex\u2019s parenting plan violations as well as records of your communications with him or her. Evidence such as this will be a crucial component in building your case.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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